DANITA TURNER-WILLIAMS

“Good evening, baby, how was your day?” Fernando asked so sweetly while entering the room. 

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“My day went well, and yours?” I responded. 

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I don’t want to spoil this moment by filling his head with all of the negative things that transpired in my place of employment.  Wow, this man does something to me; it feels as though all of my physical body comes alive and there is so much warmth felt at this time. 

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He answered, “My day has gone well also.” 

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Fernando came over and greeted Sugar properly by planting a wet passionate kiss softly on her lips.  Sugar’s juices welled up between the inner parts of her thighs and began to drizzle down her legs.  The lovemaking is awesome between us; it is like our bodies are in complete unison.  Before that thought could complete circling in Sugar’s head, Fernando kissed Sugar all over her body and her clothes seemed to peel off her body all at once.  Sugar let out a sigh of relief as his manhood entered her temple and filled it with much love.  Her body was in sync with his and they rocked back and forth in the sea of lovemaking! 

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My body has longed for the pleasure this day would bring, and finally it is a reality!  My body is responding so positively to this meeting with my lover.  Wow, that was intense and welcoming to my body and spirit.  I have longed for this touch.  It’s so refreshing to experience lovemaking for a change instead of experiencing sex, the process of doing it for the sake of fulfilling a need, not because you truly want to or desire to.  You know, one of those biological needs? 

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If I remember correctly, according to Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, I believe he said sex is one of the basic, foundational, biological or physical needs next to food, shelter and clothing.  I could take this a step further and say that Fernando is my sense of balance, bringing everything into perspective or homeostasis.  If I go by what Maslow said, Fernando meets the third level as well, which is “belonging and love,”  the areas of love and affection.  According to Maslow, in order for us to reach our greatest potential and become truly motivated, we must continue building, climbing up the pyramid to reach self-actualization.   Sugar recognized it is hard to experience love if you lack fulfillment of the most basic need—food.  Sugar felt like she had been starving for love and affection with Stanley.  Stanley doesn’t know how to touch that secret place and experience the true essence of Me, what lies just beneath the exterior.  Fernando is able to peel away and delve into the interior, the innermost part of my being!  When I think about it chills go up and down my body; it is rare that one experiences love in this capacity.  I thank God for allowing me to experience this type of love.